I plan to take pieces of her post and relate how it relates to me and to our relationship together.
"A simple fact of life is that some men have been born with a need to serve the feminine. These men, like my baby, have a need for female authority in their everyday life. For these men everything feminine is wonderful and superior to everything masculine. These men can be wonderful and loving husbands as well as fathers. The problem is that they need to find the lady who is willing to put a collar on them. And yes, I will use the 'S' word. My husband lives as my slave doing as he is told. A challenge for many women is understanding how a man can be both a husband, a lover, and something of an obedient servant."
I'm unsure whether men are born with a need to serve females, yet I do believe it is a learned behavior through an individual's personal experiences.
As a relatively young man, I recall a friend relating a tale about his older sister's best friend who was upset with him and chose to seek revenge. He related that she waited for him to finish showering with a towel draped around his waist as he left the bathroom for his room. She, being larger and taller, easily surprised him by throwing him to the ground and pinning him to the floor. Naturally, during the fall, he lost his towel leaving him nude and struggling under her weight to free himself. As he struggled mightily, she positioned herself to grab his testicles with enough pressure to cause him to agree to quit fighting and accept punishment for his sins against her. Wishing for the episode to end, he quit struggling and allowed her to wrap a rope around his testicles and pulling him to his feet. When he realized what was happening, he began struggling again which caused her to pull the rope harder dragging him from one room to another in the house. Due to the pain, he quit struggling and allowed her to lead him around the house with the noose attached. She then noticed that he was becoming aroused and began teasing him about this arousal. Soon, she removed the noose and made him promise that he would not tell anyone what had happened and to accept his punishment for his actions.
This is just one example of an experience that I was told about over 35 years ago. When I heard the story the first time, your little toy became thoroughly excited wishing that an experience like that would have happened to me. I found it extremely hot to be subjected to the whims of a strong female and still feel the same today.
The blogger also relates that it is a problem for submissive men to find a woman to put a collar on. This reminds me once again to thank you for fulfilling this role for me. The frustrating part is that we are practicing our relationship at a distance. As I have related countless times, I wish we lived closer....
"There is something very special about having a man who willingly gives up his freedom for the privilege of belonging to you."
I hope you do feel special, as I believe that I have done my best to make you feel this way. I truly believe that it is a privilege to belong to you as I have expressed in the past. I continue to be humbled as I am quite sure that there isn't anyone else who gets as much attention through communication as I do over the past three months.
".....some men want more than anything else to experience life as the property of a strong, confident women. These men absolutely crave female control. They want it physically as with such things as chastity devices and kennels. They want it mentally. They want to be trained by her to serve. They want to be trained to obey her verbal as well as non verbal commands. They want to know they are making her life better. Most of all these sweet men want to know that this is what SHE wants. And take note that for these men SHE is always in capitals. For these men the SHE is a personal goddess."
I can’t think of
anything in the above comment that I disagree with…I do absolutely “crave
female control” and want to be trained by you. I was ecstatic to learn that you
wanted more than a simple “cock ownership” when I first entertained you with a
suggestion at forming this relationship. Now, I recognize that you want to be
able to explore the pain side of this relationship, and I am overjoyed to
become this human canvas for you to ply your trade.
Also, you must realize that I wish to make
your life better as illustrated by various purchases made from your wishlist. I
realize that you look forward to receiving packages of appreciation, yet it
really pleases me as well. YOU are my personal goddess….
We want to see our men earn their worth by
showing us that they are indeed willing to suffer for the privilege
of being close to us....In a strange way this type of suffering is
romantic and can bring a couple closer together.
As I related above and have mentioned in the past, I consider it to be my privilege to being this close to you. I'm sure that there would be others who would be jealous of my position as I feel that you could have a "pick of the litter" as far as those who could have been the chosen one. I'm simply fortunate that you chose me....Indeed, I am willing to suffer for the opportunity to become this close to you....Despite this knowledge, I recognize limitations in this relationship as well....
...punishment is an important part of femdom. It is
the key, along with practices such as chastity, for letting a man
know you are truly in control of his being. This is, of course, is what
many men need and want....Yet, I now understand that to be successful as a
mistress wife there is a time for love and sweetness, and a time for strictness......Some women in these relationships have learned to love the whip too
much.
I have really enjoyed being punished by you from afar...Of course, my preference would be to be closer in order to actually meet more often, yet I can say that I enjoy your cleverness in your choices of punishments. As stated before here, I really loved the punishment session that we did while chatting through gmail...wowowo extreme eroticness....
I also recognize that there is compassion in you for me as well. You respect me as a human being, and I know that you would not intentionally hurt me permanently while respecting my boundaries. You have proved that you care, and I appreciate that as yours....I trust you...implicitly...
"And yes, the other part of punishment and such
is that we often want our men to suffer for us. By his suffering a man shows
that he is worthy of our attentions. It is a way for a man to show his
commitment to the lady who loves him. His little thing may be screaming for
freedom from its cage, yet he keeps it locked. By his suffering the male
demonstrates that he is worthy."
As you've admitted, it makes you hot to know that someone is willing to suffer for you. You like the feeling of being empowered in this relationship, and I'm quite sure that this relationship has improved self-esteem as it would be with any other humble individual like yourself.
I really do love to to prove my worthiness to you and appreciate you....you remain my addiction...
Enjoy my thoughts, ma'am....I hope to receive feedback :)
I remain,
Your Pet and your itty-bitty toy ;)
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