Thoughts on Blog Post

     
After reading this blog post, I wondered if you had written it! I thought I'd add some thoughts on the author's recommendations:


     1. You must absolutely take control of his orgasms!

Check....Even though we haven't quite figured out the chastity device, control of my orgasms has been in place since February. It still is extremely erotic after these months to have my orgasms controlled by you. It's difficult to put into words to explain why this turns me on so much. I approached with you with the idea, and I have no regrets. :)

     2. Control your own feelings of guilt.

I recognize that my toy is owned by you, and I am not allowed to orgasm without permission. I know that I have stepped out of line and have played without your permission, yet I have always felt a great degree of guilt and have confessed my transgressions. You have also attached a punishment that is a true detriment to keep my hands from your toy.

As for her other points regarding ruined orgasms, I am soooo incredibly fortunate to have a mistress who recognizes that I am weak and will make mistakes. Honestly, after a lifetime of habitual wanking, I do not believe that I could orgasm only 3-4 times in one year. I could see myself asking out of a relationship where I was not allowed to fully orgasm more than she recommends. I still consider myself to be a male with needs and despite my age, I get quite horny....surprise surprise....

     3. You must get into his head!

It is recommended to learn my fantasies......As I have said in the past, YOU know more about my fantasies than ANYONE I know....This blog has allowed you a glimpse into my head, especially in regards to my sexual desires. Often it has been hard for me to find topics as I believe that you know me soooo well that nothing I can add will break new ground....

Even though we do not talk, your texts continue to serve as a motivator to continue this relationship....I continue to look forward to hear from you and am humbled that you chose me for this relationship as well :)

     4. You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.

There is nothing as hot when you use your texting to get me off and/or tease me. I continue to check my phone countless times during my day hoping to hear from you. You have used countless ideas to arouse me and ordered me to do something sexual. I do know that you find it erotic for me to get off at work ;)

btw....I LOVE getting you off as is recommended! One of the most erotic times was when you used my texts to play with yourself and to eventually get off.....wowowowowo

     5. Make him do something humiliating.

The author gives recommendations including wearing a butt-plug, CFNM, and masturbate for you. We have talked about many of these topics and hope to plan them in the future....

As far as the last recommendation to eat my cum ALWAYS ALWAYS, you were the first to ever require me to taste and swallow my own. I was shocked at first and did not know if I could follow through, yet I was proud that I actually pulled it off and have eaten my own several times since. Honestly, I have eaten my own when not directly ordered to do so....preparing myself for future activities ;)

     6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.

The author recommends not to let me get away with anything. I know that I've been bad in our relationship and am happy to report that I try my best to be honest with you. I am sooo happy to be owned by a mistress who is compassionate and realizes my weaknesses without being one who deals out punishment at all times.

     7. Find ways to tease him.

Unfortunately, distance ownership is very difficult. Of course, the ultimate would be having several opportunities to see you. You are simply amazing, ma'am.

     I hope you've enjoyed my post to your blog.

     I remain,

     Your Pet and your tiny toy :)